Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Si jeunesse savait...

"Some people find the teachings I offer helpful because I encourage them to be kind to themselves, but this does not mean pampering our neurosis. The kindness that I learned from my teachers, and that I wish so much to convey to other people, is kindness toward all qualities of our being. The qualities that are the toughest to be kind to are the painful parts, where we feel ashamed, as if we don't belong, as if we've just blown it, when things are falling apart for us. Maitri means sticking with ourselves when we don't have anything, when we feel like a loser. And it becomes the basis for extending the same unconditional friendliness to others."
~ Pema Chödrön

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sounds good. But how do we know when we're being kind to those qualities, and when we're just pampering our neuroses? Road map, please!

Huntington said...

(That was me, clicking "publish" an eyelash too soon as always. I love that I do that!!!!!)